Back to One Another

If Satan could destroy God, he would have done it long ago. But he cannot defeat Him. He never could, and he never will. Scripture reminds us that “the Lord has established His throne in heaven, and His kingdom rules over all” (Psalm 103:19).
So if the enemy cannot strike the throne of God, where does he aim his attack?
He aims for the place he believes will wound the heart of God the most: your heart, your home, and your relationships.
His strategy has always been the same—division, anger, bitterness, and pride. If he can turn hearts against one another, he can weaken what God designed for humanity. If he can fill hearts with shame or resentment, he can draw them away from the love and freedom God offers.
But Scripture is clear about where the real battle lies:
“For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” (Ephesians 6:12)
The people around us are not our enemy. You may be thinking, yes, we know. But do we? Do we really?
Do we remember that the real enemy is the darkness that seeks to divide what God has joined together? Every grudge we cling to, every bitter word we refuse to release, every moment we choose pride instead of humility—do we see these as victories for the enemy? Or are we quick to justify ourselves?
Paul warns us in Ephesians 4:26–27, “Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold.”
What grieves the heart of God most is separation.
Separation between friends.
Separation within families.
Separation between Himself and His people.
When we fall for the lie that our enemies are made of flesh and blood, we grieve the heart of God.
Think of the ache in your own heart when those you love are divided—when your children fight, when friendships fracture, when distance replaces closeness. Now imagine that grief magnified beyond measure. God’s heart longs for reconciliation, restoration, and love among His people.
The enemy knows he cannot overthrow God, so he attacks the battlefield closest to God’s heart. Us.
But God has given us a weapon:
Forgiveness.
Scripture commands us plainly: “Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” (Ephesians 4:32)
We forgive not because it is easy.
We forgive not because others always deserve it.
We forgive because we ourselves have been forgiven.
Forgiveness breaks the chains of bitterness. Forgiveness closes the door the enemy tries to open. Forgiveness restores the unity where God’s love flows freely.
This doesn't mean everything will just be rosy all of the time. We do still live in a broken world. A world in which broken people can do horrible things.
And yet...
Every time you release anger, every time you extend grace, every time you humble yourself and repair what was broken, you weaken the work of darkness and strengthen the work of God.
So ask yourself today:
Who am I still holding in the prison of my heart?
Where am I carrying shame, guilt, or resentment that Christ has already paid for?
What step of forgiveness or reconciliation is God asking me to take?
Scripture reminds us in Colossians 3:13, “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”
We cannot fully walk in the freedom of God’s family while clinging to hatred, resentment, or self-condemnation.
Forgiveness is the road.
And the love of God is the light that guides us every step of the way.
Forgive to Be Free: Part 2 out Tuesday
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